Like many others, I did not see your comment but having lost 200 pounds of ugly fat (i.e., my first husband) I understand. Life is funny and after my divorce, I was completely satisfied with the crazy, cat lady designation and didn’t even bother to date. Surprisingly enough, 9 years after my divorce, I met my current husband. Life loves to throw us curve balls. Do not anguish over you heartache, many of us understand and sympathize with you. Just be the best person you know how to be and stop berating yourself when you stumble. We all stumble.
I got that warning on the second and third one. I didn’t know that the image someone holding two newborn kittens was pornographic. I guess I learned something (insert eyeroll here).
In all my years of employment, I have had three nice bosses. One was nice and stood up for his direct reports, one was nice but would cower to upper management at the expense of his direct reports, the third one was nice and would back his direct reports but unfortunately upper management removed all Ph.D.s from under him because he did not have one (he had a masters in engineering). I then got stuck with an idiot who didn’t know his head from his ar$e. Most of the bosses I had fit the bill of that last one. I am truly convinced that $h!t rises. It seems it is so hard to fire someone that the incompetent get promoted to keep them out of the mainstream of the business where they could actually do harm.
Her murdering that dog is pretty much inexcusable. If she was too stupid to train it properly, she should have surrendered it to a shelter. Definitely a sleezy move on her part.
I wish it were only the squirrels I had to worry about. I had to take down my bird feeders because a black bear discovered them. They were way too close to the house for me to want a black bear hanging around so now my birds (and squirrels) have to go elsewhere to eat. The bluebirds still make their nests in my trees though. I thought they would move out.
I take it she goes to a Catholic church. I grew up in an area where the Roman Catholic church was the predominant religion and I would say that just about every one of my friends’ mothers were just like Lila’s. Even to the “Are you wearing clean underwear? They don’t have any holes, do they?” prior to leaving the house every day. Jewish mothers do not have the corner on guilt trips! Thankfully, I grew up as neither Jewish or Catholic, although I would attend church with one of my besties every Saturday night.
Like many others, I did not see your comment but having lost 200 pounds of ugly fat (i.e., my first husband) I understand. Life is funny and after my divorce, I was completely satisfied with the crazy, cat lady designation and didn’t even bother to date. Surprisingly enough, 9 years after my divorce, I met my current husband. Life loves to throw us curve balls. Do not anguish over you heartache, many of us understand and sympathize with you. Just be the best person you know how to be and stop berating yourself when you stumble. We all stumble.